FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

WHAT IS SEXUALITY?

Sexuality is a central aspect of being human throughout life and encompasses sex, gender identities and roles, sexual orientation, eroticism, pleasure, intimacy and reproduction. Sexuality is experienced and expressed in thoughts, fantasies, desires, beliefs, attitudes, values, behaviours, practices, roles and relationships. While sexuality can include all of these dimensions, not all of them are always experienced or expressed. Sexuality is influenced by the interaction of biological, psychological, social, economic, political, cultural, ethical, legal, historical, religious and spiritual factors.

WHAT IS SEXUAL HEALTH?

Sexual health is a state of physical, emotional, mental and social well-being in relation to sexuality; it is not merely the absence of disease, dysfunction or infirmity. Sexual health requires a positive and respectful approach to sexuality and sexual relationships, as well as the possibility of having pleasurable and safe sexual experiences, free of coercion, discrimination and violence. For sexual health to be attained and maintained, the sexual rights of all persons must be respected, protected and fulfilled.

WHAT IS SEX THERAPY/SEXUAL COUNSELLING?

Sex therapy and sex counselling are two terms that really mean the same thing. Sex therapy is a specialised form of counselling for people which focuses on sexual issues, most often for individuals in relationships (although you do not need to be in a relationship to seek sex therapy).A sex therapist will try to help you develop a clearly defined issue and the goal of therapy will be to work on that issue and resolve it, or find a way to make whatever problems it causes have less of an impact on your life and sex life. Commonly sex therapy will focus on a sexual dysfunction or major sexual communication problems between partners. Sex therapy is usually directive. Sex therapists will be active, asking questions and often giving direct suggestions, homework exercises, and information in an effort to support your goals for the therapy. As a sex therapist I am able to assist you to understand the issue and help you achieve your goals.

WHAT HAPPENS IN A SEX THERAPY SESSION?

The first step in sex therapy is evaluating and assessing the presenting problem or problems. A sexual history is taken which asks the patient to describe his/her sexual experiences. If it is a couple, each partner’s sexual history is taken. (Any information you give or conversation you have with your sex therapist will remain strictly confidential).The therapist carefully analyses the medical and historical data, together with any issues or related circumstances described by the you to identify all the strands that weave into the current condition. This evaluation results in a diagnosis and detailed treatment plan. The treatment will vary depending on the issue, but it usually involves special exercises for each individual or couple. Sex therapy is not “just talking.” Each week the therapist will suggest new experiences for the individual or couple to try in the privacy of their home. These at-home exercises are designed to take the pressure and worry out of sex. In subsequent sessions, the at-home exercises are discussed and any difficulties are explored. The exercises help the individual or couple “re-learn” more satisfying sexual behaviour. The therapist functions as an sex educator, providing accurate information about anatomy, physical response that is specific to the clients sexual concern. The clients may be suggested books to read or educational videos to watch.

Who Goes To Sex Therapy?

People of all ages, sexual orientations, genders, religions, and ethnicities may choose to seek the help of sex therapists. Sex therapy is appropriate for:

  • Individuals wanting to deal with sexual identity issues.
  • Couples wanting to increase sexual intimacy
  • People who want to deal with sexual inhibitions
  • People who are dissatisfied with their sexual functioning
  • Couples wanting to increase their communication about sexuality

There is no one “type” of person who goes to sex therapy and there are many more reasons to see a sex therapist than those mentioned above.

WHY GO TO SEX THERAPY?

Generally a sex therapist should be chosen over a general psychotherapist, psychologist, psychiatrist, or other helping professional, when the issues are very specifically sex related, or when sexuality seems like a central part of the issue. Some examples of issues that bring people to sex therapy are:

  • Sexual trauma
  • Lack of orgasm
  • Difficulties with erections or ejaculation
  • Problems with differing levels of desire in a couple
  • Difficulties resulting from infidelities
  • Sexual concerns as a result of illness or surgery

This list is not exhaustive, and if you think you are interested in talking with a sex therapist, most will spend at least a short time on the phone with you to determine whether or not they are the appropriate person to be meeting with.

IS THERE A RIGHT TIME TO SEE A SEX THERAPIST?

There is no one way of knowing when to seek professional help or support for sexual problems. The right time to do that is whenever is right for you.If you are single and feel there are specific sexual concerns or issues that you can’t figure out on your own or work through with the support of friends or family, then trying to work with a sex therapist can be a helpful new way to approach the issues. Additionally people find the confidenciality offered by a sex therapist a more comfortable environment to approach these issues. If you are in a relationship the decision about when to see a sex therapist might be a bit more complicated. Does your partner also feel that seeing a sex therapist is a positive step in resolving sexual issues or concerns? Are you planning on going together, or are you interested in going on your own? An ethical sex therapist will suggest having an initial consultation, and if they feel that sex therapy isn’t going to be helpful they will, or should, let you know. Sex therapy isn’t necessarily for crisis management (although it might do that as well) and even if there are parts of your sexual relationship you are happy with, if you feel that you could benefit from some support, education, information, or counselling from a professional who is trained in the area of human sexuality, then exploring sex therapy as an option is perfectly reasonable.

SHOULD I SEE A SEX THERAPIST ON MY OWN OR WITH A PARTNER?

If a couple is interested in sex therapy they will probably have to go to therapy together. But if you are the one interested in therapy, and you would prefer to have an initial session on your own, there is nothing wrong with starting the process this way. Depending on where the therapy goes, you may or may not bring in your partner at a later time.

WHAT ABOUT CONFIDENTIALITY?

I don’t share information from or about you, unless I think that someone is at risk of serious harm. In this instance, I would seek to discuss it with you first.I work with a supervisor, and they quality control my work. They make sure I am working ethically and effectively, in your best interests. They never know your name, or any details that would allow them to identify you. All reputable counsellors and therapists work with a supervisor, and this will be enshrined in the code of ethics and practice published by their accrediting body.

DO YOU ABIDE BY A CODE OF ETHICS?

I abide by the Australian Counselling Association and Australian Society of Sex Educators, Researchers and Therapists Codes of Ethics and principles of good practice.As a client, should you consider that I am not abiding by their code of ethics and principles of good practice, then you can make a complaint about my work to ACA or ASSERT. One of the important roles of my supervisor is to regularly check that I am working ethically and effectively, in the best interests of you, the client.

DO I NEED A REFERRAL?

You do not need a referral to see the team at Sex Life Therapy. However, if you do have a referral from your GP bring it along with you.

Do You Offer Medicare Rebates?

 No. All our psychosexual therapists are privately billed. Medicare rebates under the Better Access scheme are only available to people who see a registered psychologist, mental health social worker, or occupational therapist.

DO YOU OFFER PRIVATE HEALTH FUND REBATES?

You will need to check with your private health fund whether they provide rebates for counselling and psychotherapy.

HOW MUCH DOES IT COST?

Sessions prices vary between therapists. Please check the therapist profile page.

HOW LONG IS A STANDARD SESSION?

A standard session is 50-60 minutes in length. Longer sessions may be avliable through negotiations with your therapist. 

DO YOU OFFER COUNSELLING/THERAPY WITH ISSUES OTHER THAN SEX THERAPY?

Yes, the team at Sex Life Therapy offer a number of resources and support. Many of our therapists offer counselling, education and sexual functioning to name some of the areas we can assist with. Please see each therapist’s areas of specialty on our therapist page.

WHEN DO YOU HAVE APPOINTMENTS AVAILABLE?

Appointments availability differs between therapists. Please call us on (03) 9005 5213 or make an appointment below.

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Fri: 10:00 AM - 2:00 PM

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COLLINGWOOD OFFICE LOCATION

Suite 209/134 Cambridge Street Collingwood
Victoria 3066
Telephone (03) 9005 5213

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SYDNEY OFFICE LOCATION

Suite 201, Level 2/1 Erskineville Rd, Newtown NSW 2042
Telephone (02) 9188 4838

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Dr Christopher Fox – Clinical Supervision Opportunities 2026

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Clinical supervision is an essential part of working therapeutically with clients. Clinical supervision is a professional requirement of all counselling, psychotherapy, psychology, social work and occupational therapy bodies. All people working in the helping professionals also benefit from clinical supervision (or practise mentoring).

All ethical and professional therapists have on-going formal clinical supervision to support their work in accordance with professional codes of practice requirements. Clinical supervisors are experienced therapists and maintain a responsibility for the good practice of supervisees and to protect clients from harm and unethical practice.  Clinical supervisors also have supervision.

Clinical supervision is a space for the supervisee to engage reflexively with the content and process of their client work. Through clinical supervision topics such as therapeutic techniques, therapeutic relationships, difficult problems, ethical dilemmas or issues which impact on the therapist personally as a result of the therapeutic process.

The focus in supervision is three-fold:

3 circles which read 1. Therapy process – the development of clinical skills and awareness,<br /> 2. Self-in-therapy/therapy-in-self – recognise and manage personal responses, values and power,<br /> 3. Professional development – expand knowledge and skills.

Introducing your Supervisor – Dr Christopher Fox

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As a clinical supervisor I work from a collaborative and supportive framework to facilitate the growth of the therapist. I draw on critical reflexive practice where the supervisee moves beyond reflection to engagement in self-in-therapy/therapy-in-self/therapeutic self, self-care and development as a professional. A focus on the praxis issues of practice-to-theory/theory-to-practice encourages the therapist to maintain a best-practice model drawing on evidence-based and practice-based evidence informed approaches.

My professional focus is in the areas of psychosexual therapy, sexuality, and gender diversity, as well psychological wellbeing. My theoretical orientation draws on an integrative model of psychodynamic, Berne, Adler, humanism existentialism, Rogerian and solution-focussed approaches to therapy in the main.  My practice is also heavily influenced by systems (Satir, Bowen)/family and relationship therapy.  I also utilise creative therapeutic approaches including storytelling, therapeutic photography, and clay/play dough. As a public health specialist and experienced community practitioner I also supervise health promotion, welfare and community development workers.

I have worked with sexual and gender diversity, as well as sexual health and wellbeing for over thirty years. I am an European Certified Psycho-Sexologist with the European Federation of Sexology and European Society of Sexual Medicine.  I am Director of Sex Life Therapy – a specialist psychosexual and relationship therapy practice in Melbourne, and one of Australia’s oldest and largest psychosexual therapy services. 

I work as a Senior Lecturer in Sexual Health (Sexology) in the Faculty of Medicine and Health at the University of Sydney where I am the Co-Director of Sexual and Reproductive Health Programs and Pathway Coordinator for the Psychosexual Therapy Pathway in the Postgraduate Program in Sexual and Reproductive Health.   I hold an adjunct Research Professor in Sexual and Reproductive Health at the Fiji National University.  I am the President of the Asia-Oceania Federation of Sexology and have held executive positions on the governing councils of the World Association for Sexual Health, the Asia-Oceania Federation of Sexology and the Society of Australian Sexologists, including National Chairperson.

Indiviual and group sessions available 

Individual Clinical Supervision is bookable through Chris Fox and available to general counselling and psychotherapy (psychologists, social workers, OTs, counsellors, mental health practitioners) or psychosexual therapy (psychosexual/sex therapists, sexologists, sexual health counsellors) on a regular or ad-hoc basis.

Psychosexual Therapy Group Supervision held on 1st Tuesday of the Month 16.00-17.30.
This group supervision is open to existing psychosexual/sex therapists/sexologists. Groups are limited to six participants.

Emerging Therapist Group Supervision held on 3rd Tuesday of the Month 16.00-17.30.
This emerging group supervision is aimed at recently graduate therapists (psychologists, social workers, OTs, counsellors, mental health practitioners) and therapist with less than five years practise experience.  Groups are limited to six participants.

Cost 

Ad Hoc = $125
6-Pack = $635.00 ($105.83 per session).
12-Pack = $1,145.00 ($95.42 per sessions)

Outer Barcoo:  Rural and Remote Supervision held on 2nd Tuesday of the Month 15.30-17.30.

This is a general supervision group for practitioners in rural and remotes areas of Australia. The group will focus on practise issues and practice issues with a rural and remote lens.The two-hour groups will focus on traditional supervision and add a professional development aspect as well.  This is an online group. (3rd Wednesday of the month at 1430-1630). The group is limited to six participants.

My career started in rural practice and I have always maintained an interest and a connection with these areas.  Practising in rural and remote Australia has unique experiences which many urban-based therapists and supervisors do not grasp.

Cost

Ad Hoc = $170
6-Pack = $865.00 ($144.50 per session).
12-Pack = $1,470.00 ($122.50 per sessions)

 

If you are interested in individual or group supervision, please contact the office on (03) 9005 5213 or email [email protected]

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